Running as fast as we can...


I'm feeling quite nostalgic these days.... running means more to me than it ever has, and yet this year I'm focused on almost anything but. When it comes right down to it - relationships are what matter in this life, and I've had to remind myself that if you don't tend to them on a regular basis, well.... it's almost as if they don't exist.

I think this is the reason I continue to go to great lengths to ensure I connect with my running family on race weekends, and love training with anyone - any chance I get. My weeks are so hectic that without these points of focus, it all can become just one big accumulated blur. Races give me (it sounds funny) the opportunity to slow down, meet new people (every single time - parking lot, trails, aid stations), and connect with those I already know - continuing to strengthen the bonds that tether us.

When I began running, I never realized that this most solitary of endeavors would lead me into such a social dynamic - the strongest community of which I've ever been a part. Take the time to thank the people in your life for being there... some of them would be there anyway, but some wouldn't - if you didn't reciprocate their love, their support. And for all sorts of reasons, you just never know when it is it'll be the last time you ever see someone. Cherish them... family, lovers, and friends alike.

I'm Speedee!!In Lak'ech Ala K'in

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Two said…
Word! I hear you on that one, it is really what makes me stick with some semblance of training these days, so I can be fit enough to hang with my trail running family, and is why I took a basically volunteer coaching position to help people complete their first 5k. Today on the ride home from the 5k I was so satisfied with the experience. Often we run a race to see how fast or far we can go, but today I made a fool out of myself running to the finish with one of my people, only to turn around and make sure the other's were doing well, and to finish with the last member of the training group. It was also about the relationship with them, and a common desire to see them meet their goals.

I am probably not fit enough to run the Skyline, but then I'd miss all the fun!
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Dan said…
"and I've had to remind myself that if you don't tend to them on a regular basis, well.... it's almost as if they don't exist."..... Well said Kevin. I certainly could do better in this aspect of my life.
Saturday, July 04, 2009
sherpajohn said…
Don;t forget to say hi at the VT100...

Sherpa John
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Lalaith Means Laughter said…
as always you say what needs to be said and you say it oh so right...
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Hua said…
I hear you! Its pretty amazing how quickly relationships do deteriorate and disappear without maintenance even when sometimes all it takes is a phone call just to say hello. Thats great that your not letting it happen and keeping up with your connections.

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Friday, August 28, 2009
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